DEFINING the relationship is an issue that comes up with almost every couple.
How men respond when asked to define the relationship is a big indicator of how he actually feels.
One response, in particular, should have women running for the hills, according to a dating expert.
Relationship coach Aly McDonald shared on TikTok the red flag women tend to miss when dating, and it has to do with defining the relationship.
She said: "The red flag most women miss when it comes to dating is when men say, 'I don't want to put any pressure on it, I don't want to put a label on it, we'll just see where it goes.'"
If a man doesn't want to define the relationship, then he is essentially giving you false hope, McDonald explained.
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"They know want they want and it's probably not a relationship.
"So stop wasting your own time and only go out with people who know what they want," McDonald added.
In the comment section, McDonald clarified that a low-pressure relationship isn't necessarily bad, but both partners should have the same expectations.
She wrote: "No one wants pressure but if you know a relationship is your end goal, it’s best to date people who have the same end goal."
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Several took to the comments to sing praises of McDonald's advice, like one who wrote: "This is very true."
Another added: "Agreed. You and the person you’re seeing should talk about end goals, regardless if you’re both on the same page in the beginning."
"Yes… seeing where it goes? It could go anywhere and also nowhere like I know what I want and if you want the same then awesome," a third comment read.
Additionally, another relationship expert shared her five red flags that mean your relationship is doomed to fail.
Interestingly enough, not defining the relationship after months of dating is a major red flag, according to the expert.
Meanwhile, a dating coach revealed the four signs your other half is cheating and why a sudden smile is really bad news.
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