I fear I'll disappoint my partner in bed as I've only had sex with my ex-husband

I am 49, while my partner is 51. We are both divorced and met on a dating site.

I married my husband when I was 18 and was with him for almost 30 years. He is the only man I have ever had sex with.

My partner and I plan on having a weekend away and I know my partner will want to have sex – as do I.

But I’ve no idea how to please another man. My partner’s more experienced and has had a number of previous partners. My body isn’t great, either.

I don’t want to disappoint him because I want him too and I worry it’ll put him off.

DEIDRE SAYS: Getting sexually active with a new partner can feel nerve-racking at first.

Tell him you want him but you are worried about getting things wrong.

He may be anxious too but if he is more experienced, he can take the lead.

Women worry how they look naked but this is unlikely to worry your partner. He may not be an oil painting himself!


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