I feel guilt and can't move on after I cheated and my husband killed himself

DEAR DEIDRE: MY quiet but happy marriage was blown apart four years ago when I started an affair with an ex – then my husband killed himself.

I am 34. When an ex- boyfriend invited me out for a “catch up” drink, we picked things up exactly where we had left them and started having sex.

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After a year of sneaking around I admitted everything to my husband and told him I was leaving.

Late one night two police officers arrived and informed me my husband had killed himself.

I am still all over the place. I feel so guilty.

I love my boyfriend but now I don’t know if I am ready to settle down.

He complains I blow hot and cold all the time.

DEIDRE SAYS: When somebody takes their life, it is normally because of a pre-existing mental health issue like depression.

I’m attaching my support pack Bereavement. And do get in touch with Support After Suicide (supportaftersuicide.org.uk), too.

Once you have addressed your issues around your late husband’s death, you will find it easier to move on.

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