My ex wants to get back with me again but I'm really anxious about the idea

We were together ten years ago but it didn’t work out. I am 39, he is 40. He found someone else but recently made contact on Facebook and we have grown close.

He has left his partner and says he wants us to try again. Part of me thinks it would be worth a try but I’m also feeling anxious about the idea – or maybe that I just don’t want to be with him.

I am worried too that it would cause problems with his now ex-partner. I have never asked him to leave her and I am feeling under pressure to jump into something I am not ready for.

DEIDRE SAYS:You are not responsible for his decision to leave his partner so don’t let him persuade you to get back with him unless it is right for you.

Your relationship didn’t work before and you need to be sure that whatever caused the problems have been sorted out.

He sounds controlling and you have to live in the here and now, not just aim for goals.

Take your time to decide what you really want.

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