DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend seems to be obsessed with some game he has on his phone and our sex life has nosedived.
We’re at university and he decided I should move in with him at his parents during the shutdown, even though I have a larger bedroom at my house.
I think he couldn’t be bothered to make the move. I’ve been here a month now and he just sits on his phone for hours saying nothing.
I wonder why I’ve bothered with all the hassle of moving my stuff over just to watch Netflix on my own. And no sex either.
It’s true it’s harder with parents here but when we do get a chance and I try to initiate something, it’s almost always a no or he’ll joke that I’m desperate.
We’re both 20 and have been together for six months.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You deserve better, so insist on a proper talk together.
Say you’ll break with him if you can’t have a more rewarding relationship. Say he must put his phone down for some together time and to revive his interest in sex.
His nasty put-down that you must be desperate sounds defensive. Could he fear he’s not great in bed? My e-leaflet Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive can help.
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