My fiancee and I were trying for a baby but I want to dump her after finding naked images
DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancee and I were trying for a baby, but now I want to dump her after finding a secret profile full of naked images she has set up on social media
I am sick of her lies and I know she’s no good for me, but I don’t want to look a git for finishing with her — she has fertility issues and I know she will use that against me.
We have been together for four years and engaged for two. I am 28 and she is 25.
She has alway been an attention-seeker and I have told her I am not comfortable with her flirting.
But when a mutual friend tagged her hidden account and I discovered her secret profile, it was like someone had kicked me in the stomach.
She works in a big department store and the whole feed was full of sexy pictures I had taken, which we had agreed were for our eyes only.
She was in her underwear or semi-naked in most of them and she had been using them to flirt with two men she works with.
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From the lewd messages they have exchanged I’m sure she has cheated with them too, although she denies it. I have called off our engagement.
Instead of trying to reassure me, she tries to make me feel guilty. I really want to be a dad and seeing my friends move on in their lives and have children is hard.
I’ve always been supportive over her fertility issues but I’m sick of the way she constantly looks for attention from other men.
I don’t think she wants the same things in life as me, otherwise she would be putting all her energies into our future.
I want to finish with her but dread the accusations she will throw my way. I don’t want our friends to think I’ve behaved badly.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Ask yourself, is your girlfriend ready to have children or is your eagerness to start a family unsettling her?
If her fertility issues are causing problems between you, this could be why she is seeking attention from other men.
Explain to her how her behaviour is making you feel. If you both want children and want to make your relationship work you may need fertility counselling.
You can get support from fellow sufferers through Fertility Network UK (fertilitynetworkuk.org, 0121 323 5025).
If you decide to go your separate ways, don’t feel guilty for your valid feelings.
Only you and your girlfriend understand what is going on in your relationship and whether you have a future together.
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