My girlfriend cries while she gives me oral sex and it makes me feel really uneasy

DEAR DEIDRE: ANY time my girlfriend gives me oral sex, she cries. It makes me feel very uneasy.

I have repeatedly told her she doesn’t have to do it but she keeps saying nothing is wrong and insists on it. I am 21 and she is 20. We have been together for the past six months.

I worry she is forcing herself to do something she doesn’t like – and as a result, I don’t enjoy sex so much myself. I stopped sex once completely after she started crying but then she got mad at me for “overthinking it”.

I can’t see how to resolve this problem.

DEIDRE SAYS: My feeling is that there is more behind this than her just not finding it enjoyable.

Did someone force her in the past, maybe?

Tell her you care for her deeply and she clearly needs support.

She can talk in confidence to The Mix, which helps under-25s (themix.org.uk, 0808 808 4994).

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