My husband is so addicted to weed it’s ruining our marriage and sex life – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband smokes marijuana every day, from the moment he gets home to when he goes to bed.

He is a scaffolder, yet I’ve even seen him smoke before work and before driving.

We are both nearly 50 and have been together for 15 years.

He knows I hate marijuana but he doesn’t want to give it up, even for me.

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We hardly have sex and I now feel so angry and disappointed in him that I can’t bear his touch.

He has no idea how irritating he is when he’s stoned.

I have to check everything because he’s not “present” enough to be relied on.

He’s such a lovely, caring person otherwise and I never want to leave him.

But I feel we’re only leading half a life.

DEIDRE SAYS: You must intervene if he is smoking marijuana before driving and his high-risk job, or someone could get killed.

Tell him you will report him to the police if need be.

Also say how much you love him but how sad his drug dependence makes you.

Ask him to explore with you what help is available to break the habit.

Contact Adfam, who help families affected by drink and drugs (adfam.org.uk).

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