My partner hasn't told his ex about us, in case she stops him seeing his girls

I am 40 and my partner, who is lovely, is 43. We have been seeing each other for a year and it hurts me to think I have to be a secret in his life.

I can understand why he is anxious, but how can I convince him to consider my feelings in all this?

It feels like a giant wall between us, but I don’t see how I can talk to him and bring him round to my point of view.

DEIDRE SAYS: Tell your partner you love him and want a future together but that being kept secret is depressing for you.

Sooner or later, his ex has to find out there is someone else in his life.

Suggest he finds support through Families Need Fathers, which advises men who are worried about being cut off from their children (, 0300 0300 363).

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