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In her post, Parislili recounted the events leading up to the proposal. The couple had been dating for about a year and had discussed their plans for engagement and marriage. Parislili had envisioned a romantic proposal, perhaps in a park or on a beach, but what she got was quite different.<\/p>\n
On their first day in New York City, while getting ready in their hotel room, her fianc\u00e9 abruptly popped the question with the TV blaring and the room seemingly cramped and dark. He had secretly recorded the moment, but when Parislili watched the video afterward, she couldn’t hear anything he was saying to her, and the setting looked far from the romantic backdrop she had imagined.<\/p>\n
She confessed to feeling disappointed, even asking if it was a prank when he initially proposed. Although she eventually said yes and pretended to be excited, she was left with a sense of sadness and letdown.<\/p>\n
Don’t miss… <\/strong> We use your sign-up to provide content in ways you’ve consented to and to improve our understanding of you. This may include adverts from us and 3rd parties based on our understanding. You can unsubscribe at any time. More info<\/p>\n The crux of the issue lies in Parislili’s desire for a more thoughtfully planned and romantic proposal. She couldn’t understand why he had chosen the hotel room when the vibrant and iconic Times Square and the entire city of New York awaited them outside. She emphasized that her fianc\u00e9 wasn’t one to shy away from crowds, considering his aspiration to become a theater teacher, so it wasn’t a matter of stage fright or fear of onlookers.<\/p>\n Parislili concluded her post by acknowledging the potential backlash of being labeled “ungrateful” but stressed her genuine wish that her fianc\u00e9 had put more effort into creating a memorable proposal, even if it had taken place anywhere but that hotel room. Despite her feelings, she was torn because expressing her disappointment to her fianc\u00e9 would likely devastate him.<\/p>\n In response to her post, many Redditers replied offering their opinion; some even gave their own engagement story.<\/p>\n One user,\u00a0AshyJade77, wrote: “My now Husband proposed to me in the middle of the bush after trying to flex his Ute on a rock. We are Australian if that helps with context lol. He causally opened the ring box and said \u201cwell better get this over with\u201d. It was not romantic at all but hey, he’s the most amazing husband I could have ever asked for and in the end that\u2019s what matters right? I\u2019m sorry you are disappointed, there\u2019s a lot of pressure in this day and age for every moment to be executed in a certain way but sometimes that just doesn\u2019t happen. And that\u2019s OK. What matters is that the person you have said yes to treats you amazingly in normal, everyday life.”<\/p>\n Another user agreed with Parislili writing: “I\u2019d be disappointed too. Was he so nervous he just had to get it out of the way?”<\/p>\n Follow our social media accounts here on\u00a0<\/b>facebook.com\/ExpressUSNews<\/b>\u00a0and\u00a0@expressusnews<\/b><\/p>\n
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