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A bride has been praised after saying that her sister can\u2019t come to her wedding at all if she refuses to wear her bridesmaid dress.<\/p>\n
The woman has taken to Reddit to share the awkward scenario, which involves her sister not liking the dress picked out for her.<\/p>\n
According to the post, the bride-to-be says: \u2018I\u2019m planning a lovely bridesmaid entourage for my wedding consisting of my beautiful sister and cousins. <\/p>\n
\u2018Today I told my sister I thought of navy blue dresses for bridesmaids. I sent her a couple pics very enthusiastically. I thought it\u2019s elegant. Matches with the suits and gives a nice pop to the white wedding dress on pics.<\/p>\n
\u2018The response from my sis was instant: \u201cYou can\u2019t be serious! I won\u2019t wear that. Everyone will hate that. Or is it that you want all of us to look like sh*t? I heard there are weddings where the bride wants to make bridesmaids look intentionally bad. That\u2019s probably your plan.\u201d<\/p>\n
The poster continues: \u2018She [my sister] said her \u201ccolor type\u201d is \u201cautumn\u201d and navy looks the worst on that complexion. My cousins, she said, are also autumn and I will make them look the worst too.\u2019<\/p>\n
After some back and forth looking for alternative blue dresses, the bride\u2019s sister tells her that she doesn\u2019t want to be bridesmaid and would attend the wedding, but not in a matching dress.<\/p>\n
The poster continues: \u2018Her point of view is that I should care about people feeling good at my wedding and I don\u2019t have much empathy.<\/p>\n
\u2018I cried for a bit then I told my sister honestly that after this I will have a sad and angry feeling every time I\u2019d look at her at the wedding. In her pretty dress, being satisfied with herself at my expense. And maybe it\u2019s best if she\u2019s not there then.\u2019<\/p>\n
It\u2019s clear most people on Reddit seem to side with the bride.<\/p>\n
One person said: \u2018WOW. Your sister is rude. The role of bridesmaid is to wear the bride\u2019s choice of color as a representation of being her best female confidant\/friend. It\u2019s the norm.\u2019<\/p>\n
While someone else added: \u2018You\u2019re sister is a brat. She\u2019s also not the main character at your wedding. If she dropped out, as much as it may hurt, that\u2019s her choice. You tried to appease her and she still wasn\u2019t happy. That\u2019s not your fault.\u2019<\/p>\n
However, others did point out the bride\u2019s reaction is a little drastic.<\/p>\n
One person replied: \u2018Are you saying that she can\u2019t come to your wedding as a guest just because she doesn\u2019t want to be a bridesmaid??? That\u2019s what it sounds like you are saying, and that would be ridiculous. Just let your sister wear what she wants and be a guest.\u2019<\/p>\n