{"id":223865,"date":"2023-10-30T14:08:01","date_gmt":"2023-10-30T14:08:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/allworldreport.com\/?p=223865"},"modified":"2023-10-30T14:08:01","modified_gmt":"2023-10-30T14:08:01","slug":"going-monogamish-saved-our-marriage-now-i-have-sex-with-women-while-my-husband-watches-but-we-have-3-important-rules-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/allworldreport.com\/world-news\/going-monogamish-saved-our-marriage-now-i-have-sex-with-women-while-my-husband-watches-but-we-have-3-important-rules-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"Going monogamish saved our marriage\u2026 now I have sex with women while my husband watches – but we have 3 important rules | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"
WOULD you consider letting your spouse sleep with other people?<\/strong><\/p>\n That's what one couple from west London decided to do by embracing the Millennial and Gen Z trend of becoming 'monogamish'.<\/p>\n Personal trainer Linda Partick, 29, and her husband Nathan, 27, an events manager, have been together for 10 years and monogamish for three. <\/p>\n The Sun's exclusive autumn\u00a0sex survey\u00a0reveals 40 per cent of under-35s are \u00adchoosing to get busy\u00a0with multiple partners.<\/p>\n Here Linda and Nathan reveal why the secret to their long and successful marriage is being monogamish…<\/p>\n Linda says: \u201cWE started opening up our relationship after I expressed a desire to sleep with other people, especially women. <\/p>\n My husband has always known I'm bisexual, but we were monogamous so we never experimented.\u00a0<\/p>\n I struggled to stay in a heterosexual dynamic as my desire for women intensified the more I fantasised about it.\u00a0<\/p>\n I\u2019d watch a lot of lesbian porn but in the end it wasn\u2019t enough to subside the urge. <\/p>\n In 2019, we discussed becoming \u2018monogamish\u2019. <\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n Unlike polyamorous couples we didn\u2019t want to have relationships with other people, but we wanted to open up our sex life.\u00a0<\/p>\n We decided to bite the bullet and attended our first sex party, setting clear boundaries\u00a0before we went.\u00a0<\/p>\n These rules included: never playing separately, never playing with single men – only women and couples – and no prolonged chats after to stop an emotional connection developing.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n It was nerve-wracking at first but we both loved it and we haven't looked back since. <\/p>\n Personally I believe it keeps our sex life diverse, as we both feel fulfilled in all our kinks and desires.\u00a0<\/p>\n I believe it keeps our sex life diverse, as we both feel fulfilled in all our kinks and desires<\/p>\n I enjoy watching him with other women and he enjoys watching me. But the best part of all is the sex we have AFTER – often referred to in the monogamish community as the 'reclaiming' sex. <\/p>\n It\u2019s the best sex ever! <\/p>\n We are so passionate after we\u2019ve been with others and we really feel connected – and reclaimed.\u00a0<\/p>\n It has bought us closer than ever – in and out of the bedroom. <\/p>\n Unlike most monogamous relationships, where people are consumed with jealousy, we discuss what women we find attractive and the amazing sex we have with other people – everything best friends would talk about!\u00a0 <\/p>\n There\u2019s no jealousy in our marriage and we honestly believe it is the secret to our successful marriage. <\/p>\n As long as we keep to the rules we are both happy.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n We are so passionate after we\u2019ve been with others and we really feel connected – and reclaimed. It has brought us closer<\/p>\n We now have our own podcast, @the.playroom, about it, where we share our experiences about being a young, ethnic couple navigating this world.\u201d<\/p>\n Nathan adds: \u201cI found opening up our marriage difficult at first. I was scared it might cause Linda to leave me for someone she liked more. <\/p>\n But I chose to trust her and supported her through her desire to become monogamish. <\/p>\n It has actually made us stronger and now that I get to see who she really is I love her more than ever.\u00a0<\/p>\n She no longer has to suppress this whole side to her and it\u2019s benefited us both.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p>\n
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