{"id":224258,"date":"2023-11-15T09:20:32","date_gmt":"2023-11-15T09:20:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/allworldreport.com\/?p=224258"},"modified":"2023-11-15T09:20:32","modified_gmt":"2023-11-15T09:20:32","slug":"i-discovered-my-husbands-best-friend-is-cheating-on-his-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/allworldreport.com\/lifestyle\/i-discovered-my-husbands-best-friend-is-cheating-on-his-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"I discovered my husband&apos;s best friend is CHEATING on his wife"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>DEAR JANE: I discovered my husband&#8217;s lifelong best friend is CHEATING on his wife &#8211; he&#8217;s threatening to destroy my marriage if I tell her<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>In her latest agony aunt column, best-selling author Jane Green gives advice to a woman who is stuck between a rock and a hard place\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Do you have a question for Jane? Email dearjane@mailonline.com or ask it below<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>READ MORE: I forced my husband to RETURN our puppy<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span>Dear Jane,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Not too long ago, I discovered that my husband&#8217;s best friend &#8211; the best man at our wedding &#8211; has been cheating on his wife, who also just so happens to be a very good friend of mine.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>I had heard rumors that he&#8217;d been having an affair but couldn&#8217;t bring myself to ever mention it to my husband, knowing how much he admires this man, who has essentially been a big brother to him since childhood.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>However, I was forced to confront these rumors head-on when I caught him with the woman in question.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>I immediately confronted him &#8211; hoping that he&#8217;d tell me I was wrong, that I&#8217;d completely misunderstood the situation. Heck I&#8217;d even have been happy if he&#8217;d told me that his wife was fully aware and that it was just how their marriage was.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/08\/15\/77558821-12725607-image-a-3_1699455899102.jpg\" height=\"568\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Dear Jane, I discovered my husband&#8217;s best friend is cheating on his wife &#8211; but when I confronted him he threatened to destroy my marriage<\/p>\n<p><span>But instead he just&#8230; shrugged? As if he didn&#8217;t really care. As if he wasn&#8217;t doing anything wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>I just flipped, to be honest with you. I was furious. I demanded that he tell his wife &#8211; or I&#8217;d have no choice but to tell her myself. Then I insisted that he come clean to my husband because I&#8217;ll be damned if I let his infidelity spread lies in my own marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>At that point, he just got really nasty. It was a side of him I&#8217;ve never seen. He said if I even dared to breathe a whisper of what had been going on, he&#8217;d tell my husband that it was actually me who&#8217;d been having an affair.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/08\/15\/69851423-12725607-International_best_selling_author_Jane_Green_offers_sage_advice_-a-4_1699455992102.jpg\" height=\"485\" width=\"306\"><\/p>\n<p>International best-selling author Jane Green offers sage advice on DailyMail.com readers&#8217; most burning issues in her Dear Jane agony aunt column<\/p>\n<p><span>He said he&#8217;d urge my husband to leave me, make him see that he never should have married me. And even though I trust my husband, I know he loves me, something about the way he made these threats chilled me to my core.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>He seemed so confident in what he was saying that it made me panic.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>So now I&#8217;m stuck between a rock and a hard place. Between my husband and his surrogate brother. And I just don&#8217;t know what to do. Do I risk destroying my marriage &#8211; while most certainly destroying someone else&#8217;s, as well as my husband&#8217;s most important friendship?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Would it not just be better for everyone if I stay quiet?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>From,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Wifely Woes<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Dear Wifely Woes,<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry you\u2019ve learned such a hard lesson, which is largely that other people\u2019s behavior is really none of our business, and demanding that people behave in a certain way, even when we are absolutely sure that it is the right thing to do, does not usually lead to the results we are looking for.<\/p>\n<p>That said, he sounds like a pretty nasty piece of work.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t imagine it would destroy your marriage to tell your husband what you have discovered, and in fact, I think you do need to tell your husband, for I\u2019m not sure how you can pretend that none of this happened &#8211; and there\u2019s no way it\u2019s not going to get in the way of your relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Nor, I imagine, will you be able to look his wife in the eye.<\/p>\n<p>So whilst I don\u2019t suggest you tell his wife, I do suggest you tell your husband. As your partner in life, he needs to know that you are carrying this secret, and what his friend then said to you.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He may choose to do nothing about it, but the burden you are carrying alone needs to be shared with him. Together, you can decide how you then tackle it.<\/p>\n<p>I wish you well.<\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-12725607\/DEAR-JANE-discovered-husbands-lifelong-best-friend-CHEATING-wife-hes-threatening-destroy-marriage-tell-her.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR JANE: I discovered my husband&#8217;s lifelong best friend is CHEATING on his wife &#8211; he&#8217;s threatening&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":224257,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>I discovered my husband&amp;apos;s best friend is CHEATING on his wife - All World Report<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/allworldreport.com\/lifestyle\/i-discovered-my-husbands-best-friend-is-cheating-on-his-wife\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"I discovered my husband&amp;apos;s best friend is CHEATING on his wife - All World Report\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"DEAR JANE: I discovered my husband&#8217;s lifelong best friend is CHEATING on his wife &#8211; 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